Dear Evelynn ,
I am shocked and down at the moment you told me this news . How can it be ? However , I hope that I could lend you my hand .
I advise you not to worry about your parents . This is because they are already adults . They know what they should do or shouldn't . They know that there no love between them so they make such a decision . Now what can you do is try to be a good and independent child so that they would not worry about you . They need your understanding at this round of time .
My opnion to you about your brother is try to give him sound advices and support . Tell him that the negative signs of drug intake . But i know he already know because he is a clever person . All these years , he only steps a wrong foot on the wrong way so , give him some time ti turn a new leaf . I know that he will , trust me and trust him too .
Single-mum is not a big deal nowadays . I hope you can give an opportunity to the baby to see the how beautiful is this world . Baby is innocent in this case . Please think twice or you should tell your parents about your circumstances , I believe that they could help you . Because they are more experienced .
Cutting yourself is very dangerous . Don't you feel pain when you carved your skin ? Are you desiring sympathy ? I hope you can go for counselling . It could help you pass all this gloomy days . If it is not effective to you , actually you can drop a call to me or you can stay with me in my house . I'll bring you to go to travel to my favourite places . Maybe it will help you to alleriate your pain and surffering .
Don't feel lonely , you still have me , okey ? I'll stand by your side no matter what . Be calm in any situation . Look at the bright side too . My door will always be open to you , find me if got any problem , okey ?
Your sincerely , Lai Mun
multitude of burdens
Dear friend,
My heart is heavy with burden and worries . I could take it anymore . Every night , I cried to myself to sleep . My parents' divorce is finalised last week . My heart is broken knowing that my family falls apart . In the other hand , i'm glad that there will no longer be fights and verbal attack at home .
Let me tell you a secret . My brother was just released from drug rehabilation centre . I know you'll be surprised , so am I when Iwas told this disheartening news .
You should know about my intimate relationship with Jose . I am suspecting myself of pregnancy . It was 2 month since my period . I told him . Suddenly , he was cold and distant . Stop answering my calls . I regret so much . Ihope that I was not so naive to step into sex so soon . Well , what could I do !
When I could not take this pain , I just carved on my skin with a pen knife . I feel released as the blood seeps out . Do you think that I am going mad ? Am I depressed ? Help me !
Love , Evelynn
My heart is heavy with burden and worries . I could take it anymore . Every night , I cried to myself to sleep . My parents' divorce is finalised last week . My heart is broken knowing that my family falls apart . In the other hand , i'm glad that there will no longer be fights and verbal attack at home .
Let me tell you a secret . My brother was just released from drug rehabilation centre . I know you'll be surprised , so am I when Iwas told this disheartening news .
You should know about my intimate relationship with Jose . I am suspecting myself of pregnancy . It was 2 month since my period . I told him . Suddenly , he was cold and distant . Stop answering my calls . I regret so much . Ihope that I was not so naive to step into sex so soon . Well , what could I do !
When I could not take this pain , I just carved on my skin with a pen knife . I feel released as the blood seeps out . Do you think that I am going mad ? Am I depressed ? Help me !
Love , Evelynn
Letter to I want to be a Model
it is good that you have an inpiration
i am proud of your..
determination
dedication
discipline
but you are ruining your...
health
inner organs
self-image
self-awareness
family ties
you are not concious on the impact
you are inflicting on your body in the long term
a model is a strenous job
you need all the energy, attention and fitness you can get
to accomplish your tasks
you are beginning to measure yourself by the standard people had on you
to be a top model,
you need to be strong mentally
adamant in your style and personality
do not let what others' think shapes you
you could never satisfies everyone
you will be a successful model and in all your endeavours because you have all the inner strength through this experience..
i am proud of your..
determination
dedication
discipline
but you are ruining your...
health
inner organs
self-image
self-awareness
family ties
you are not concious on the impact
you are inflicting on your body in the long term
a model is a strenous job
you need all the energy, attention and fitness you can get
to accomplish your tasks
you are beginning to measure yourself by the standard people had on you
to be a top model,
you need to be strong mentally
adamant in your style and personality
do not let what others' think shapes you
you could never satisfies everyone
you will be a successful model and in all your endeavours because you have all the inner strength through this experience..
i want to be a model By: Wee Onn
i have always wanted to be a model
trodding down the catwalk
swasped by cameras and paparazzis
last year, i auditoned for
a tv program
i want to be a model 2008
i was cut at Top 25
The reason the judges gave was
"you are too chubby
cut down your weight"
i was a 175cm at 47kg
i have set out to achieve their stringent requirement
i tried all ways to slim down
i could survive on an apple per day
no matter how my mother pleads with me
i insist on no meal, no food
at times, i would eat a little
just to stop my mother's cries
then i vomitted secretly
food makes me nauseous
Is there a better way to slim down?
What is coming at me?
i am just released from the hospital 3 days ago due to dehydration and malnutrition
the doctor recommended me to join a rehab program after this
actually, i find no wrong in myself.
but my mother is crying so badly that it hurts my heart
I just want to be Model
trodding down the catwalk
swasped by cameras and paparazzis
last year, i auditoned for
a tv program
i want to be a model 2008
i was cut at Top 25
The reason the judges gave was
"you are too chubby
cut down your weight"
i was a 175cm at 47kg
i have set out to achieve their stringent requirement
i tried all ways to slim down
i could survive on an apple per day
no matter how my mother pleads with me
i insist on no meal, no food
at times, i would eat a little
just to stop my mother's cries
then i vomitted secretly
food makes me nauseous
Is there a better way to slim down?
What is coming at me?
i am just released from the hospital 3 days ago due to dehydration and malnutrition
the doctor recommended me to join a rehab program after this
actually, i find no wrong in myself.
but my mother is crying so badly that it hurts my heart
I just want to be Model
Letter to 2 in 1
first are you sure you are pregnant?
buy a pregnancy kit and check at least 3 times
be very sure before you drive yourself up the wall
if you are pregnant....
these are a few suggestions:
(1) marriage proposal
(2) be a single parent
(3) give up your baby for adoption
do not ever abort,
please do not hurt a soul,
especially your flesh and blood,
i am not enforcing guilt upon you,
but someone out there could give your baby a future if you think you are not able to
if you are not pregnant...
think over your recent relationship as your boyfriend is not taking appropriate responsibility
please do not ever fall into sexual temptation
you have the first experience of the fear and consequences
why go over it again?
please stop .....
for the goodness of your beautiful marriage and babies to come
if you need support in this matter, visit website www.mother2nuture.com
buy a pregnancy kit and check at least 3 times
be very sure before you drive yourself up the wall
if you are pregnant....
these are a few suggestions:
(1) marriage proposal
(2) be a single parent
(3) give up your baby for adoption
do not ever abort,
please do not hurt a soul,
especially your flesh and blood,
i am not enforcing guilt upon you,
but someone out there could give your baby a future if you think you are not able to
if you are not pregnant...
think over your recent relationship as your boyfriend is not taking appropriate responsibility
please do not ever fall into sexual temptation
you have the first experience of the fear and consequences
why go over it again?
please stop .....
for the goodness of your beautiful marriage and babies to come
if you need support in this matter, visit website www.mother2nuture.com
2 in 1 By: SH
nowadays i have huge appetite
and my weight is increasing
my period has stop coming for 2 months now
at first i thought that my hormon is imbalance
now, i am not too sure
i think i am pregnant
i told my boyfriend
but he was cold to me
he was reluctant to answer my calls
i can feel that he was beginning
to avoid me
one day, i went to his place for exam study
his family was out
so, i ended up spending the night there
i lied to my mum that i went camping
that was the first time
and then we became sexually-involved
i have no courage to tell my mum
about my current situation
what if she chased me out?
i will have no place for shelter
my tummy will grow by the days
there is no one i could turn to now
nobody can help me except you
Hope that you could tell me what is best for me....
Worrisome
and my weight is increasing
my period has stop coming for 2 months now
at first i thought that my hormon is imbalance
now, i am not too sure
i think i am pregnant
i told my boyfriend
but he was cold to me
he was reluctant to answer my calls
i can feel that he was beginning
to avoid me
one day, i went to his place for exam study
his family was out
so, i ended up spending the night there
i lied to my mum that i went camping
that was the first time
and then we became sexually-involved
i have no courage to tell my mum
about my current situation
what if she chased me out?
i will have no place for shelter
my tummy will grow by the days
there is no one i could turn to now
nobody can help me except you
Hope that you could tell me what is best for me....
Worrisome
Letter to Release
watching porn or sexual content on the website
is so common and reachable
younger and younger kids are exposed too early in their lives
about sex which is so untrue and too physical
love is...
a consent between 2 people
pure and caring
not sex
not manipulation
watching these xxx content:
makes you sexually active
mentally impure with sexual images flooding your mind
stop is a right choice
you may go back to the same action when you are...bored (as you mention)
so, indulge in healthy activities like games
your friends will not despise you
you only think that way because you feel guilty
talk to them and you will see
find an accountable friend
that makes sure that you are not doing the "behind the door thing" again
be truthful to him
throw away all your collection
delete those files
move your computer to visually reachable place in your house
you will not tend to watch such videos in the open
sleep early...hormonal rush usual rises at night
This is a common problem for youngsters
you can overcome it....
visit website like http://www.onceyoung.com/ for guidance
is so common and reachable
younger and younger kids are exposed too early in their lives
about sex which is so untrue and too physical
love is...
a consent between 2 people
pure and caring
not sex
not manipulation
watching these xxx content:
makes you sexually active
mentally impure with sexual images flooding your mind
stop is a right choice
you may go back to the same action when you are...bored (as you mention)
so, indulge in healthy activities like games
your friends will not despise you
you only think that way because you feel guilty
talk to them and you will see
find an accountable friend
that makes sure that you are not doing the "behind the door thing" again
be truthful to him
throw away all your collection
delete those files
move your computer to visually reachable place in your house
you will not tend to watch such videos in the open
sleep early...hormonal rush usual rises at night
This is a common problem for youngsters
you can overcome it....
visit website like http://www.onceyoung.com/ for guidance
Release By: HC
i stumbled upon a porn video in the internet
at first, i would like to click on cancel button
but something in me stopped me
curiousity got the best of me
and i watched porn for the first time
since then,
there was no end
i surfed for porn every single day
to fill my boredom
then,
the interest got dull
i borrowed sex videos from my friends
i watched it with my guy friends
then,
the interest got dull,
i decided to watch it with my girlfriend,
she succumbs after much persuasion
then,
i made an advance
she rejected me
my family found out
they turned away from me
my friends looked down upon me
i am so embarassed
my girlfriend left me too...
i feel so sad and regreted over my action
can you help me?
i really need your help
REGRET
at first, i would like to click on cancel button
but something in me stopped me
curiousity got the best of me
and i watched porn for the first time
since then,
there was no end
i surfed for porn every single day
to fill my boredom
then,
the interest got dull
i borrowed sex videos from my friends
i watched it with my guy friends
then,
the interest got dull,
i decided to watch it with my girlfriend,
she succumbs after much persuasion
then,
i made an advance
she rejected me
my family found out
they turned away from me
my friends looked down upon me
i am so embarassed
my girlfriend left me too...
i feel so sad and regreted over my action
can you help me?
i really need your help
REGRET
Letter to Highs and Lows
i am touched to receive your letter
By writing this letter, you have gather much courage
by taking this first step
to change your life
i tell you
a new life is possible for you
you need real help
go to a society or church that could offer treatment
drug addiction
does not only need to be cured
but be replaced by...
love
acceptance
forgiveness
redemption
you need a clean environment to start over
go back to your friends and family
if you really want to start afresh
so do not wait, start now
try contact the nearest help agency
try call: 013-74646484 and ask for Mr. Fong
He may be able to help
By writing this letter, you have gather much courage
by taking this first step
to change your life
i tell you
a new life is possible for you
you need real help
go to a society or church that could offer treatment
drug addiction
does not only need to be cured
but be replaced by...
love
acceptance
forgiveness
redemption
you need a clean environment to start over
go back to your friends and family
if you really want to start afresh
so do not wait, start now
try contact the nearest help agency
try call: 013-74646484 and ask for Mr. Fong
He may be able to help
Highs and Lows By: Wee
i left home
living in gangsterisme environment this moment
used to be an excellent student
wasn't that now
vagrant, snatch thief
a drug addict
i use all illegal ways just to get high
steal, snatch,, smuggle sometimes
dodge the police on the streets
always in the sate of anxiety
i do not think this is an authentic life
i do not feel like i am alive at times
all the time
i an beginning to miss my friends and family
i feel sad and lost
what can i do?
i want to go home.
but i am ashamed
i am worried my family may reject me
do not forgive me
as i cannot forgive myself too
i read from the papers
that you are a well-known psychologist
so, i express freely to you
Give me some advice
Save this melting "toughie"
Unsure
living in gangsterisme environment this moment
used to be an excellent student
wasn't that now
vagrant, snatch thief
a drug addict
i use all illegal ways just to get high
steal, snatch,, smuggle sometimes
dodge the police on the streets
always in the sate of anxiety
i do not think this is an authentic life
i do not feel like i am alive at times
all the time
i an beginning to miss my friends and family
i feel sad and lost
what can i do?
i want to go home.
but i am ashamed
i am worried my family may reject me
do not forgive me
as i cannot forgive myself too
i read from the papers
that you are a well-known psychologist
so, i express freely to you
Give me some advice
Save this melting "toughie"
Unsure
Letter to Hiding in the Closet
there is rising population of
alternative living style people
across the world
including our nation
if you ask me if i agreed upon same sex relationship
i do not
i believe that relationship is an union between a man and a woman
for your case..
i would like you to really look into
your reasons behind your liking preference
was it just.....
out of curiosity
boredom
looking for other options
i advised you not to venture on the other side
there are many consequences that you may not be able to bear
you could reach out to organisation that could help you
for example; check out this website
www.turnright.com
alternative living style people
across the world
including our nation
if you ask me if i agreed upon same sex relationship
i do not
i believe that relationship is an union between a man and a woman
for your case..
i would like you to really look into
your reasons behind your liking preference
was it just.....
out of curiosity
boredom
looking for other options
i advised you not to venture on the other side
there are many consequences that you may not be able to bear
you could reach out to organisation that could help you
for example; check out this website
www.turnright.com
hiding in the closet By: WH
I was a straight guy
But 3 months ago, i think i fell in love with my best friend, LD
previously i had 4 girlfriends
However, my relationships never turned out right
And i started to ask myself, do i like girls?
I enjoy spending my time with this LD.
We spent evenings at his place
eating, chatting,
cherishing our brotherhood
i feel so blissful
i tell myself,
i wanted to spend each day for the rest of my life with him
Is my love for him is wrong?
i have not confess my feelings to him yet.
But i think our feelings are mutual.
Can you help me to solve this dilemma?
Confused...
But 3 months ago, i think i fell in love with my best friend, LD
previously i had 4 girlfriends
However, my relationships never turned out right
And i started to ask myself, do i like girls?
I enjoy spending my time with this LD.
We spent evenings at his place
eating, chatting,
cherishing our brotherhood
i feel so blissful
i tell myself,
i wanted to spend each day for the rest of my life with him
Is my love for him is wrong?
i have not confess my feelings to him yet.
But i think our feelings are mutual.
Can you help me to solve this dilemma?
Confused...
insider By: KC
Take a good look at me
I am a good guy
However, a few weeks ago
i was forced to join triad
they beat me up until i agree to
Do i need to join triads just to avoid beating?
Is it wise?
I could not tell my mum about my struggle
i just joined the gang
i am a newbie in the triad that call themselves as the HAWK
They took great care of me
None of the bullies come near me
when they know i am a HAWK now
i think i am turning to something evil as time goes by
they try to introduce DRUGS to me
i am so scared that they may harm my family
if i reject them
Should i quit triads?
Can you help me?
Pull me out from this gull.
I am a good guy
However, a few weeks ago
i was forced to join triad
they beat me up until i agree to
Do i need to join triads just to avoid beating?
Is it wise?
I could not tell my mum about my struggle
i just joined the gang
i am a newbie in the triad that call themselves as the HAWK
They took great care of me
None of the bullies come near me
when they know i am a HAWK now
i think i am turning to something evil as time goes by
they try to introduce DRUGS to me
i am so scared that they may harm my family
if i reject them
Should i quit triads?
Can you help me?
Pull me out from this gull.
Letter to "Where are you?"
Dear friend,
i know it must have hurt
that someone you loved and
trusted have left without a word
you must know that what is behind, you must let go
the money you have lost could be earned back
the love you have poured out may not
However, know that you deserved to be loved
there may not be a true explanation
since you could not find him
But it is not important
Look around
you have family and friends that love you
please move forward
one day, you will find your true love.
From:
A Listener
i know it must have hurt
that someone you loved and
trusted have left without a word
you must know that what is behind, you must let go
the money you have lost could be earned back
the love you have poured out may not
However, know that you deserved to be loved
there may not be a true explanation
since you could not find him
But it is not important
Look around
you have family and friends that love you
please move forward
one day, you will find your true love.
From:
A Listener
Where are you? By: PAN
I felt so sad, my boyfriend has left me.
i have been crying all night long.
When my friend asked me, i could not pour out.
You are the first one that know my little dark secret.
i could not believe it
Months before, i have taken out my savings for him to start a new business
then i lost contact with him
i have spent my time looking for him but i cannot find him
My heart turned upside down
i discussed with my friends
they advised me to let go of the past
i still cannot get him out of my mind
we have been on and off for 10 years now
i do not think he would leave without a good reason
i really want to find him and ask what makes him leave me ALONE
after being apart,
no food could enter my mouth,
i have sleepless nights
my heart could not go on
i feel ill
what method is there for me?
can you tell me and help me to solve my problem?
Should i let go of the past or
should i still believe that on day he will come back TO ME...
Abandoned
i have been crying all night long.
When my friend asked me, i could not pour out.
You are the first one that know my little dark secret.
i could not believe it
Months before, i have taken out my savings for him to start a new business
then i lost contact with him
i have spent my time looking for him but i cannot find him
My heart turned upside down
i discussed with my friends
they advised me to let go of the past
i still cannot get him out of my mind
we have been on and off for 10 years now
i do not think he would leave without a good reason
i really want to find him and ask what makes him leave me ALONE
after being apart,
no food could enter my mouth,
i have sleepless nights
my heart could not go on
i feel ill
what method is there for me?
can you tell me and help me to solve my problem?
Should i let go of the past or
should i still believe that on day he will come back TO ME...
Abandoned
